internal/impl: fix race ExtensionInfo.lazyInitSlow
The xi.init flag should not be set until after we have truly
initialized everything.
Change-Id: I43dcb300917145ce19a7199fa871acd0df325c6c
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/protobuf/+/194439
Reviewed-by: Damien Neil <dneil@google.com>